8 Things Every Girl Should Do To Become More Attractive And Confident In Herself
Confidence is honestly one of the most attractive traits in both men and women.
However, it is not exactly the easiest thing to achieve and to put in action especially in our day to day lives where nothing is certain and absolute.
Confidence can be somewhat easy to fake. Yet, not everyone who fakes it eventually makes it to where they are truthfully secure in themselves.
... which is why I’ve decided to gather a list of 8 things you can do to test yourself so that you may become more confident and therefore, attractive in the long run.
Let’s Dive In :)
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#1 Enjoy Your Own Company
Remember that doing things alone is significantly different than being lonely.
Going to certain places on your own should never be seen as something pathetic or comical but should be seen as a way to increase your self esteem and you enjoying life to the fullest.
Start off small and as you start to become more sure of yourself, dive in for those big, satisfying fulfillment.
Whether that means going to the park to enjoy a solo picnic date, working out at a local gym by yourself, dining at a restaurant, going to the beach etc…
Just Do It!
Yes, initially it might seem extremely awkward, strange and overwhelming, but it’s definitely something that you will eventually get used to which will drastically increase your confidence.
#2 Ignore The Heavy Makeup For A While And Find Ways To Subtly Enhance Your Natural Beauty
Learning how to be more than sufficient with your natural beauty is essential to building confidence.
Using this extra time to research ways that you can accentuate and highlight the beauty of your face is a crucial step in this self improvement journey, in which you’ll start to see yourself as a 10/10 with, or without makeup.
I find that focusing on these 5 specific things are the stepping stones to feeling more confident with your natural, bare self:
Skincare
Fitness
Creating outfits with clothing that are tailored to your body and aesthetic
Hair
Investing money into hygiene and body grooming
#3 Try To Never Neglect Your Looks At Home
This doesn’t mean that you should walk around in your heels all day whilst having your hair pinned up into a tight ponytail.
I simply mean, you should always acquire to look presentable at all times.
Never set yourself up in a position where you’re rushing to put on decent clothes and to brush your teeth just as someone’s knocking at your door.
Having the intent of still looking glamorous whilst at home is such an amazing mindset to have especially when trying to level up your character and build confidence.
One of my favourite ways to conquer my insecurities and overly shy self would be to set up a photoshoot studio at home where I take pretty aesthetic pictures of myself. Try it!
3 Things You Would Need For Your Gorgeous Home Photoshoot Would Be:
A Backdrop (paper or fabric)
Plants and other props
A cute monochromatic outfit
Your phone camera and natural lighting.
#4 Don’t Feel Embarrassed When Having Fun
As someone who would probably be considered as “socially awkward”, I do find it hard to sometimes showcase when I’m having fun and can sometimes pay too much attention to my surroundings.
Being overly aware and observant are too amazing and attractive traits to have however, sometimes it’s good to be lost in the moment and be unbothered by whoever decides to glare at you.
#5 Join Or Create A Close, Niche Group
Maybe you’re into sports and would like to further your ice skating skills even more?
Or
Perhaps you have an interest in literature and would like to create a community with people that share the same interest as you?
Whatever you’re into and have a keen interest in, why not go out of your way to either join a club or create one of your own as a great way to build your confidence?
#6 Embrace And Develop Your Talents And Skills
They say practice makes perfect which means that the more you work on your talents, the more comfortable and the more confident you essentially become.
Being immensely talented at a particular skill such as playing the piano or dancing is something that most people will admire and find attractive.
It’s one of those effortless ways to enhance your beauty without the focus solely being on your physical appearance.
#7 Make It A Habit To Start Saving A Certain Amount Of Money By The End Of Each Year
Leveling up financially and seeing the money you saved accumulate by the end of the year is honestly such a great confidence booster.
Of course, it doesn’t have to be an extravagant amount but it shouldn’t be too small and in your comfort zone where it won’t really cost you too much effort to achieve.
#8 Learn How To Articulate Yourself Very Well
Reading is honestly one of the best and easiest ways to build your character and fuel your mind.
That confidence you get from hardly ever stumbling over your words, finding the right vocabulary to express your thoughts and being able to gracefully construct an argument, is such an amazing and satisfying life experience.
As insignificant words may be compared to actions, they are still very powerful.
Just a single word or phrase can change the entire mood of a particular setting and could lead to either a positive or negative results.
Well, That’s It Folks
Thank you so much for reading this blog post. I really hope that you enjoyed it. Don’t forget to subscribe down below for more posts on feminine beauty and self improvement. Tell me what you think in the comments below. See ya :)
such an amazing and satisfying feeling that will make others find you immensely beautiful and confident.
